The People In the Other Room
who do you think they are?
So here’s a head-scratcher:
For many years, there have been members of our congregations who think that having multiple services means you now have separate congregations, and who will argue for one service the second they think attendance is down.
But the real head scratcher are those who think having a Zoom option means you now have separate congregations.
No really. People believe that.
Maybe you’re one of them.
So what’s that about?
I mean, I have some thoughts, but I wonder why expanding the opportunities for people to connect with their faith community to accommodate space, time, access, etc. means that you’ve split.
Could it be - and I’m just spitballin’ here - that you don’t do anything except go to worship services, so you think that’s all there is, and anyone who isn’t there at that time isn’t part of your faith community?
You remind me of the people who think ministers only work one hour on Sunday mornings, or that teachers only work 9am-3pm, nine months of the year.
Seriously.
Your faith community is a 24/7 endeavor.
Even if the building is closed.
People are doing so much - not only are your religious professionals working (and maybe overworking, but that’s a different topic), but leadership is meeting, committees are working, classes and outreach and social events are happening.
Your faith community is more than the people you see in the sanctuary. It’s a hub of activity.
Oh, you don’t see people outside of Sunday morning? How invested are you in your faith community? Oh really? You never know what’s happening? You forget? If only there was something that showed up in your email and on the website and was available when you do show up on Sunday morning that could give you that information…
But seriously, folks.
Multiple in person services, and online options are NOT meant to separate us. They’re a sign of growth, a sign of care, a sign of commitment. Think of the Zoom room as an overflow room. Think of the other service as an opportunity to get to know more people.
Seriously. Your leadership didn’t just decide to split the congregation because it sounded like fun. They worked hard to help better serve the whole congregation.
If you really feel like you’re two congregations, do something that helps you bridge the gap. You’ll be surprised at how connected you’ll feel.
Yes! and...
You have more than one congregation already, and that's a good thing. You have choir members who connect mostly with each other, social justice people who rarely show up in church, and spouses who are there as part of a marital compromise. Having space for people to connect in different ways is a form of inclusiveness and a prerequisite for growth.